Steve wrote:Face to face, or nothing. And if I'm selling, I want the other guy to check it out and make sure everything works to their satisfaction before I leave with their money.
Google maps shows a street view. Doesn't look like that far a drive. And I'm sure the local police department is within a few miles of the location if you need to swear a complaint out. Not sure if you can do a small claims court case here or if you have to go there. If you can do it here, that means the other guy has to pay for gas to show up at the hearing. Not sure what you have to do to get the summons served, though.
I would strongly advise against a trip and a face to face with this person. It will end badly. Best case the person will have a BS story and make promises that will not be kept , just to get rid of you. Worst case,it will get physical,and someone, maybe you will go to jail. If you involve others, you can make it into a conspiracy on top of the original beef. The real world is not the Sopranos where you "make someone an offer they cannot refuse". What you are probably dealing with is a scam artist who makes their money doing shady deals or a drug addict who has had to move on from ripping off his family ( the next step in the life of a drug user).
Now for what you can do, If you can get a positive ID on the person, go to the county clerk in your county, and get a small claims action initiated( the clerk can help) its pretty simple. The Sheriff's office in the county where the respondent lives will serve them and a court date will be set. Likely the person will not show and you will get a default judgement ( you are not dealing with someone who's motto is "honor as a way of life"). Basically you are back where you started, that is trying to get blood from a turnip. I am not sure what the dollar amount involved is, so you will have to decide if it is worth the effort.
As I indicated above, this is going to be a life lesson, you just paid tuition for a semester in the school of hard knocks. Don't feel bad, almost everyone has done it, including me.
One of the worst cases I ever dealt with, the plaintiff, took a gun along just for protection mind you, to collect some money owed, the respondent called the cops .....short story, the plaintiff ( could be you) got a nickel ( 5 yrs) in the joint. This is a worst case scenario, but I am using it to illustrate how badly this can go. This is not a place you want to go...... some input for your consideration.You decide.